hard times

Last october i found out i was pregnet and in december the doctor told me i lost my baby. it really affected me and lately i cant stop thinking about it.part of me feels like its my fault. i really want to get a small meaningful tattoo about what happened but nothing too obvious, i dont want everyone to know what happend by just looking at it. i kind of only want me to know.i cant think of anything good enough so if you have an idea please let me know. thanks